Day 29: Up Next

Does it mean, Universitas Pancasila Next?

Then the answer is Lenteng Agung! *claps*

#clap #along #ifyoufeellikehappinessisthetruth #so #long #dear #so #long


So… without further ado, here is the answer to today’s challenge!

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Day 28: My Ten Year Old Self Thought

Wait a minute.

When I was ten years old, I was a fifth grade elementary student, and suddenly this thought comes up:

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*why didn’t they make this kind of TV show when I was a fifth grader back then? I would join them, I guess. 

Ok, so let me have a major throwback to those good old moments when I was ten.

————————–moments of silence————————–

That was when a newcomer entered my classroom and suddenly became so famous. She moved to our school from a reputable school in town and like what I’d been suggested, she was smart. I thought her as a threat. I‘m starting to hate the old me lol. I never really liked her. She was too white, too tall, too beautiful, and too…smart. I thought I had to fight twice harder than before to maintain my first parallel rank in my school. I shouldn’t let her win.

I also thought about how to make my class win the annual cleanest classroom contest which held by our school. I was a lone ranger in cleaning my class that finally made it win the prize. Sighly happy.

Hm, I can’t remember precisely anymore of what the ten-year-old me thoughts are. Nah, I am already yawning because it’s boring and also hard to make such a far flashback. So I’ll stop right here.

Thank you for reading!

Day 27: Must Reads

Hi, readers!

*trying to be contextual with the title

Today I am going to share you any books I really love. My indicator of today’s list is ‘how hard I forget it’ because I have a kind of short-term memory, so when I can remember the content pretty well until now, it has to be a really good book, and of course, I love it.

As usual, I will list them from number 1 to 7. They have various genres and types.

Here you go:

  1. Where Rainbows End, Cecilia Ahern, 2004.
  2. The Fault in Our Stars, John Green, 2012.
  3. Predictably Irrational, Dan Ariely, 2008.
  4. Sacred Search, Gary Thomas, 2013.
  5. Critical Eleven, Ika Natassa, 2015.
  6. Harry Potter and The Sorcerer’s Stone, J. K. Rowling, 2001.
  7. Leading Character, Dan B. Allender, 2008.

Have you read them?

Day 26: How To

Today’s challenge makes me think hard of what I should write. Anyway I’d just received a call from someone unknown and he asked me where I live now. I was annoyed because it’s not the first time he did it. I blocked his number and I felt relieved.

Can it be my answer to today’s “how to” challenge in dealing with strangers? Hehe.

Hm, ok.

My emotion goes upside down recently due to the office pressure.

I am bad at handling order from someone (in my experience) I consider disrespectful. 

My inner ego will spontaneously reject it. I feel like, “who are you to ask me do this and that, with your kind of attitude?” I always think like this and I know it’s a sign of arrogance.

I struggle with this every day, every morning when I prepare going to work, or every night when I rethink what I have done the entire day. The result is quite the same, no significance difference. I am still stuck.

So today’s challenge will be my real-time thoughts on how to handle order from “disrespectful” people in your office.

First, throw that “disrespectful” title from him/her. You can’t just consider someone respectful/not by your limited experience with them. Moreover, you are no better than them. I also remember that instead of being motivated by selfish ambition or vanity, each of us should, in humility, be moved to treat one another as more important than ourselves. How could we treat others as more important than us, while we think they’re disrespectful? It won’t work. Humility, in this fact, is trained.

Second, receive that order because you know you are going to show how God’s child works; you are going to honor God through that order. But when you are asked to do this and that, criticizing is still important. You have to know any details of that order, what they ask to do, why it should be given to you, when you have to finish it, where to find the data to accomplish it, and how you and them will work hand-in-hand to do it. Don’t just receive it and say you’ll do that. Don’t just nod your head and let irresponsible people eat blind salary. -_-

In any kind of possibility, be ‘sober’ so you can change what is wrong there. You know what I mean, right?

Third, after receiving that order, be responsible to your own work. Finish it with the (very) best you could do because you know your Master has given you talents and you are responsible to work on them.

Fourth, a praying employee is the most satisfied employee, no matter how the situation is. Praying reminds us to keep humble and grateful. So, you will be able to do those three how-to.

Day 25: I Wanted to Make Sure

I wanted to make sure that I would graduate in 3,5 years from law faculty.

I wanted to make sure that I would never get a “C” score at any subject.

I wanted to make sure that I would always get 3,5 or above in every semester.

I wanted to make sure that I would get that cum-laude title.

But then God called me to do something precious in my campus and it costed me much time in which I failed to manage. It wasn’t God’s fault, it was definitely mine. I had to let go that big desire to finish my degree in 3,5 years. I got C+ in two subjects and it broke my heart. I got below 3,5 in my fourth and fifth semester.

Thank God, I am still a cum-laude graduate.

But honestly, in my very genuine opinion, I learned so many things when I answer to that calling. I don’t regret anything despite every tiredness, heart-broken, even those things I failed to make sure.

The most beautiful thing I learned, I just need to be sure in my faith to Jesus Christ. Full stop.

Day 24: Some Things You Never Forget

Menulis telah menjadi bagian hidup saya sejak saya kelas 3 SD. Pada waktu itu saya menulis berbagai cerita bersambung di buku tulis Kiki 30 lembar dengan pulpen hitam merk Standard kesukaan saya. Sesekali saya menggunakan pensil juga. Cerita bersambung yang saya tulis terinspirasi dari beberapa hal seperti novel Lima Sekawan karya Enid Blyton dan juga telenovela-telenovela yang pernah saya tonton, misalnya Alegrijes y Rebugos. Saya juga terinspirasi dari banyak kartun yang rutin saya saksikan di Minggu pagi sebelum saya berangkat Sekolah Minggu atau pun setelah saya pulang dari sana. Saya menulis 1 episode per hari dan saya bagikan ke teman-teman saya untuk mereka baca secara bergiliran. Kalau ditotal, ada sekitar 10 judul cerita bersambung yang saya tulis.

Memasuki dunia SMP, saya mulai menulis di blog, tepat pada tahun 2005. Tulisan saya berubah dari cerita bersambung menjadi curahan hati anak remaja, yang saya pun lupa apa saja intinya. Saya barusan berpikir, waktu masih SD tulisan saya bernuansa imajinatif, namun ketika beranjak SMP, nuansanya mendadak sensitif. Ah, pertumbuhan itu memang nyata. Saya tidak ingin kehilangan daya imajinatif itu saat ini, di usia 23 ini.

Kemudian saya menjalani hidup sebagai anak SMA yang mulai menghadapi berbagai tekanan, entah di keluarga, entah di sekolah, di mana pun. Lalu tulisan di blog saya mulai berubah nuansa menjadi asertif, yang cenderung judgmental. Terlihat sekali sedang mencari “jati diri”-nya, padahal jati diri nggak ke mana-mana. Dia diam dan tinggal di hati saya.

Saya menghapus semua blog lama tersebut dan memulai blog baru ketika saya memasuki fase kuliah tingkat pertama. Di sinilah saya berusaha mengubah nuansa tulisan saya menjadi tulisan yang cenderung informatif dan edukatif, hm, mungkin sedikit garing.

Itu berlangsung sampai saat ini.

Saya mencegah menulis hal-hal sensitif berbumbu asertif terutama yang berkaitan dengan kehidupan pribadi saya di blog karena saya menyadari blog adalah ranah umum yang bisa dibaca oleh siapa pun. Lalu kenapa? Persoalannya bukan terletak pada “emang nggak boleh nulis kayak gitu?”, tapi pada “apa yang akan dilakukan oleh pembaca ketika membaca tulisan itu?”

Saya tidak bisa menggeneralisir tipe pembaca karena saya tahu setiap pembaca memiliki latar belakang berbeda yang membuat mereka memiliki perspektif berbeda serta daya saring yang berbeda. Saya takut, bila saya tidak menulis dengan bertanggungjawab atas sensitivitas yang saya bangun, mereka ketularan hal tersebut. Saya marah, mereka marah, saya sedih, mereka sedih, saya bahagia, mereka bahagia, tanpa alasan yang benar.

Atau mereka tidak menerima nuansa asertif yang saya tawarkan dan malah bernegatif ria di kepala dan hatinya.

Atau, ada yang tersakiti ketika membaca tulisan saya.

Saya tidak mau hal itu terjadi. Saya memilih menulis hal-hal demikian di jurnal pribadi saya.

Kalau pun saya menulisnya di blog, saya berusaha membungkusnya dengan informasi/edukasi yang saya dapat dari peristiwa terkait, yang sekiranya bermanfaat bagi pembaca.

Lalu, dalam menghasilkan tulisan yang informatif dan edukatif, tentu penulis dituntut untuk bertanggungjawab. Di sinilah saya merasa peran suatu tulisan yang seharusnya. Tulisan harus membangun masyarakat, membangun jemaat. Tulisan harus memajukan iman dan mendewasakan mental pembaca. Tulisan harus menjadi alat penulis dalam berkontribusi bagi kemanusiaan dan memuliakan Tuhan. Tidak banyak yang dapat dilakukan sensitivitas tanpa batas, imajinasi tanpa batas, bahkan asertif tanpa batas, untuk mewujudkan itu. Saya percaya, tulisan informatif dan edukatiflah yang berada di barisan terdepan. Sebab di sanalah letak pengetahuan dan kebenaran yang akan membangun pembaca.

Jangan menulis di blog, jika bukan untuk itu.

Dalam level-level tertentu, tulisan imajinatif, sensitif, asertif, atau apa pun itu, dapat dipakai, jika itu akan membantu pembaca memahami informasi/edukasi yang jadi poin utama suatu tulisan. Jangan dibalik. Nanti pembaca menjadi bias akan kebenaran. Karena kita menulis untuk bangsa Indonesia, bangsa yang besar, bangsa yang terdiri dari berbagai lapisan masyarakat yang filter-nya berbeda. Jika ingin mewujudkan keadilan sosial, bantulah dengan pengajaran dan pengetahuan yang tepat guna, dengan imajinasi/sensitivitas yang tepat, yang akan membantu masyarakat memahami tulisanmu. Jangan biarkan masyarakat termakan omonganmu yang tidak bertanggungjawab. Ajak pembaca mengambil tindakan berdasarkan daya nalarnya yang sudah kamu edukasi.

Saya memutuskan menyampaikan hal ini karena belakangan ini saya banyak membaca tulisan-tulisan yang membuat saya sedih dan marah (sebut saja tulisan di kolom komen pemberitaan tentang peristiwa 4 November 2016 kemarin). Saya tahu negara ini menganut sistem demokrasi, bebas berpendapat katanya. Tapi kebebasan yang tidak bertanggungjawab, apakah itu maknanya? Atau kebebasan yang tanpa batas, itukan kebebasan sejati?

Maka dari itu, saya mendorong teman-teman untuk menjadi penulis blog yang bertanggungjawab, yang isi tulisannya bermanfaat bagi kemaslahatan umat.

Day 23: I Thought About It

Gift is a form of love.

When I thought about love, I found it hard to understand. What is that? Is that something very far to reach? Or maybe, is that too abstract to understand?

I know exactly what love is when I realize, I acknowledge my mistakes, my stubbornness, my weakness, yet, I’m still forgiven. That’s when my Lord Jesus Christ, the gift from my Father, was crucified, in order to forgive me. Wow, can you imagine that? How could someone who wants to forgive, is the similar person who sacrificed his life?

The world gives us ideas that who wants to be forgiven has to do something more and more according to the Forgiver’s wants. But, not with my Lord. He is different. He is super kind. He is love.

I thought about it and always think about it.

The same way goes to these people, those who knows me well, I could say. They know I am not that good, I have many weaknesses, I sometimes forget them, I sometimes can’t maintain my communication with them. But they still show me how they love me. I know it well, they love me with the love of Jesus Christ. They pass it on, to me.

They are so kind, and they make me cry now. This kind of thing is always sentimental to me; how someone proves that you’re in their heart, you are their friend.

Those gifts cost them some Rupiahs and I know it’s not that easy to spend your money to buy things for others. But I know it’s very considerable to do for your friends.

I thought about it and always think about it. I really love them and now I feel sad to remember I am not such a care friend anymore, especially to Xaris, due to my business whatsoever.

But I pray that they will always be in God’s care, forever.

A thank you is not enough, I think.